From the author of The Divorce Bible
Before You Say I Do
Read the Contract, Ask the Questions, Know What You Are Signing
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You will spend two hundred hours planning the wedding. How many will you spend planning the marriage?
Mike Acheampong learned the difference the hard way. His divorce took sixteen months, cost almost $75,000, and taught him something that changed how he sees every engagement: nobody asked him a single hard question before his wedding. Not about money. Not about children. Not about what happens when everything goes wrong. He signed the most consequential legal contract of his life without reading it. Most people do.
Before You Say I Do is the conversation nobody had with him, delivered before it can cost you what it cost him. Across sixteen sessions, it walks couples through everything the wedding industry, and frankly most premarital books, politely skip.
The legal contract you are actually signing, and what it obligates. The money conversation, complete with full financial disclosure. Children: whether, when, how many, and the custody reality if you get it wrong. Sex and intimacy expectations, stated out loud. In laws, boundaries, and the Parent Interview, the single conversation most couples are too afraid to have. Your digital life, from phone habits to the DM pipeline where modern affairs begin. The unflinching tour of what divorce actually costs, from a man holding the receipts. Red flags, green flags, and a scored sixty question Marriage Readiness Assessment. And for couples already married: early warning signs, course correction, annual checkups, and rebuilding after crisis.
Every session ends with an Ask AI Together prompt, a modern tool to structure the hard conversations, with the safety rules to use it wisely.
This book will not tell you whether to get married. It will make sure that if you do, you sign with your eyes open.
The sixteen sessions
Mike Acheampong, MPH, PharmD, is a pharmacist, independent business owner, and father of two. After a sixteen month divorce that cost nearly $75,000, documented in his book The Divorce Bible, he wrote Before You Say I Do to give couples the conversation nobody gave him. Read his full story.
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