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Every book and tool below is placed at the exact moment it is built for. Find your stage, and it will tell you what to read. One rule: no wasted money and no wasted time.

Facing Divorce: the five stages, in order

Considering it quietly

Nobody has filed. You are lying awake wondering. This is the most powerful window in any divorce, and most people waste it.

It just hit

You got served, or the word divorce was said out loud. The first thirty days decide more than the next sixteen months.

Hiring and managing the lawyer

You are about to hand someone five figures and your future. Interview them like it, then audit every bill they send.

Deep in the war

Discovery, hearings, offers, trial. This is where preparation either pays or its absence gets billed to you.

After the ruling, rebuilding

Final is not final. The decree war, the tax landmines, and then the comeback. It ends, and you come out stronger.

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Getting Married: the three stages, in order

Deciding

You think this might be the person. A scored test beats a feeling for the biggest decision of your life.

Engaged

You will spend two hundred hours planning the wedding. Spend a few on the marriage.

Married and working on it

Already signed. The maintenance conversations that keep a marriage out of the first book.

Not sure where you fit? Start with the free emergency checklist or read Mike's story.